You still remember one of the last times you had taken a trip. In fact, as you prepare to leave on this grand anniversary adventure with your husband, it is difficult not to flash back. You were on an airplane in the middle of February and thought to yourself: if I gain anymore weight I will be asking for a lap extender. In truth, you could barely buckle the belt as there was not even a little bit of slack. You kept these thoughts to yourself at the time because you simply did not want to admit your fear to …